Church Lost and Found

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Finding your way back to church

Welcome

A place to land, wherever you're starting from

This blog shares my journey back to the church—a journey from hurt and mistrust toward healing, hope, and renewed faith. My prayer is that it offers a welcoming space for others who have stepped away from the church to ask questions, share their stories, and find encouragement along the way.

About Nicole
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  • Is this you?

    I left the church because:

    • I felt hurt by it or by a Christian I once trusted.
    • I felt judged.
    • I drifted away.

    I want to try and find my way back.

  • Join In

    Under each blog post, you have an opportunity to leave a comment. Use your real name, select 'anonymous', just your first name or make one up! The important thing, is that you join in. And please, be respectful.

  • Try the Poll

    It's anonymous! So, scroll down to take the poll. At the end, find out how others answered and how you may have something in common. You might find you're not alone.

Here's the Poll

Choose up to 3 reasons why you stepped away from your place of worship, then click to see the poll results to date. Please, take the poll only once per person.

Choose up to three reasons you stepped away from the church

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Some topics I'll be covering

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Know When to Run

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Look Before You Lead

Church in Your Jammies

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